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It’s Okay To Be Single

“Whether you remain single or married I don’t mind but what I really mind is you be happy either way. You’re married be happy, if you’re single be happy.” – Jai Gurudev

Being single is not a death sentence. You can be perfectly happy without a partner. Learn to own your singleness just as married people flaunt their marital status. Quit choosing people before you and start appreciating yourself and the love you are capable of giving back to yourself. If you are looking for a reliable life partner who will be able to surround you with care and comfort, love and tenderness… Bingo! You found the right post. Here’s why you should be happy with being single as you await true love.

Enjoy the wait

It is better to wait than to settle for someone who doesn’t know half a thing about loving you. If you’re still on dating apps, talking to people and planning other dates, it may be time to rethink. Are you enjoying yourself while you’re single? Ask yourself this question and take a step back in order for you to reflect. Take yourself on dates and love yourself in this moment of your single life before expecting it from someone else.

Ignore fear

Don’t be afraid to have a relationship with someone else because you fear being cheated on. Don’t fear being cheated on is my advice for single people. A person makes a decision to cheat so if it happens to you it wasn’t your fault it was their choice. You should not ignore love when it knocks at your door because of the fear of the unknown.

Avoid rebounds

You may even end up making the same mistakes or doing entirely new ones when you go chasing after old lovers in new people. Love is irrational that way, but one thing is for sure, a life without love should not be sad and boring to the extent that you opt for a rebound. Have fun with friends and family and never think taking back an ex will make you feel better.

Be ready

I feel like the period of being single prepares a person to be matured enough to know themselves and what they want in their partner before finding love again. So while at it, be ready for the love that you seek. Know yourself enough to want nothing but the best for yourself.

As we have come to the end of this wonderful piece, kindly share with me some of the ways you’ve been keeping yourself busy and happy as a single person. And if you have found a partner now, how was your experience being single before meeting your significant other? I’ll be waiting on your comments.

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