The best advice you can get is from walking with and learning from the best. Classy women are some of the extraordinary people you can come across. They teach you to be confident in yourself and accept that you have your own unique flaws. However, for you to be classy, all you need to know is already out there. Other people are already where you want to get. The smart way to get there is to learn from their ways. Here are five mindsets of some classy women who I follow.

Apologize

A classy woman knows to apologize when she is wrong. They have no issue saying they are sorry for doing something which is out of line. This shows one’s personal values and character.

Tolerance

She understands that anyone misbehaving around her is either looking for attention or expecting her to lower her standards. As a classy woman, it is important to know that anyone acting somehow superior to you is at the deeper core longing for love and acceptance.

Altruism

She does good without expecting anything in return. When you do good without seeking praise, it speaks volumes about who you really are. People tend to respect and honor you for being selfless in sharing your time, gifts and resources with those around you.

Words

Your words have more impact when the intentions behind them are from a place of kindness. Classy women know how to pick their words carefully so that they do not sound offensive.

Emotions

There are days when she can be happy and days when she is genuinely not having a good day. Strength is not refraining from showing one’s emotions, it is an ability to regulate them. A classy woman knows exactly how to regulate her emotions at each point in time.